MOCKERY CHANGING INTO SUCCESS

How does it feel when we are ridiculed by others ? Maybe we will be angry , the ears became hot . But there is also a response to the cold - cold , but harbored a grudge that will someday explode . It is more dangerous and can mengaggu mentality .
So, how good attitude in the face of ridicule others? Here I will describe the story that might inspire us , how to face the ridicule of others.
Once in the largest oil company in Saudi Arabia which is a collaboration between the Arabs and the United States are very thick with the difference in treatment between the natives with foreign workers .
There once was young Arabs only secondary graduates who work in the company as a low-ranking employees are feeling very thirsty . Then he found a cold water reservoir in a room . When he had taken the water and drink it , instantly came the Americans say " hey , you should not drink this water , which may only engineer , and you are a lowly servant ! "
The teen was not so drink and then go . However , that makes it bad is not really thirsty . But , feeling humiliated : why in his own country , he should not drink the water . Is his status as a lowly clerk must differentiate itself to be able to get a drink , which is actually a free water that anyone can drink .

Luckily, the teen anger disalurkannya on the positive . He was determined to change his fate . The teens also learn very hard and diligently . During the day he used to work , in the evening he took classes at the high school education to achieve .

Under these conditions , it is so rare teenagers hanging out with their peers . Unfortunately , as he told an obsession to improve the lot of the indigenous people in the company , he even laughed at his friends . However , precisely because of that , he was getting his eagerness to prove his words .

Because it works very diligently and quickly learned , finally after graduating high school , teens have the opportunity to obtain a scholarship to study in universities in the USA . He also took a bachelor of engineering degree which would make it engineer . This opportunity is not wasted to " avenge " his past is regarded as a trigger for the spirit . Finally , the young people are not just graduating to become an engineer , but he was even given a scholarship again to continue the Master's degree in geology .

On his return to his country , the youth continue working career sped up so fast . Of a section chief , branch chief , general manager , and finally appointed as vice president in the company . It is the highest position ever obtained by the local people in the company . Funny thing is , teenagers who had become deputy director of the engineers found it down first , to subordinates . One time , the engineer apologize for the events that once took place between them . But he said , "I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart the most because you forbid me to drink at that time . Yeah , first I could hate you . But , if explored further , you are the cause of this my success . "

That is , the teen has managed to turn an insult into a trigger passion for achieving success . Even the last , he is believed to be the Minister of Petroleum and Minerals in Saudi Arabia. He changed the " revenge " became the driving spirit to change the fate .

We ourselves must have also been experienced in various forms of humiliation . Refusal when selling anything , underestimated when the dreams started the struggle , not considered in the work environment , ignored when giving an opinion, to various forms of " harassment " conscious or not . Angry indeed human. Emotions were naturally happened . But our reaction for any taunts that we can actually point to better things . Is not anger and emotions will never solve the problem ? In fact , it often happens multiply the problems that occur .

Let's change all forms of ridicule and humiliation as motivation for his passion for leading change . Do not let emotions momentarily distracting . Do not allow anger bringing wrath . The above story is proof , that ridicule is actually the " energy " that will pull the power within ourselves to transform achieve a dream . Like a failure , in fact it is a vitamin for stepping stones toward success . Keep fighting , keep working , do not back down because of insults

Should we REVENGE ?

When a person do evil / wrong to us , perhaps thinking that first arises is how we will take revenge . Whether it's our friend is stabbed in the back , the boss of us who make our lives miserable, our spouse is cheating or anything / anyone . We want people who do evil to us gets rewarded even more than what dipertbuat hebiat against us . It was a normal condition .
But it would be better if we reconcile the problem and mengikhlaskannya Dangan , than we spend energy to think of ways and strategies to vent heartache for revenge . It is a better thing .
Because the only way to resist revenge is to receive the event and replace it with positive thinking . Or in other words : sincerity and move on . Because after the act had already happened and will not happen again . As if we take revenge , then what is the difference between us and them . Moreover, lower ourselves to revenge him with more bad deeds . Because revenge it usually will happen is worse than what they did against us . It will also have an impact on us ugly .
Many say " Yes .. is no longer there , but it satisfied ! "
In my opinion , satisfaction will not come with vengeance , even by reason of satisfaction , the revenge will be deeper and adversely affect us . So when we wanted to quit , it will be hard to do .
So what to do ?
According to a famous Chinese philosopher , Confucius , the most effective revenge is happily accept it and continue on with life . So we proved that the effects of their misdeeds against us no negative effect on us . And it will disappear by itself . Because revenge is easy , but if you take the other path will show our maturity , how to control your emotions and addressing the problem .
Moreover , I believe in karma . If we do bad things , surely the universe will reciprocate . And vice-versa . We need not bother to take revenge because surely they will receive the same , and if we're lucky , God will give us a chance to see it happen .

IMAGINATION AND EMOTION

An imagination will take us like to fly wherever you want . It is a maxim of the legendary science , Albert Eisntein .
From a variety of existing survey says that , growing one's age , the power of imagination will come reduced . This may agree or not .
Imagination of adults agree that more and more limitations. We know that children have a high enough imagination . If he sits in the dos / carton , then he will act as a powerful driver or pilot . Another case if done by an adult . Later you will be residents of the mental hospital ... he .. he .
Do not agree , because we can actually creative imagination , it's just that we always tersibukkan with the mindset and the existing norms , consequently we do not use a lot of thought .
Why do not more imaginative ?
Emotions play an important role in the imagination . Because each of us must be reversed behave emotions play a role . Emotions can also make us change from comfort zone to battle zone . And it also takes imagination to achieve it . If we do not change , then it will continue in the same condition . And that's the biggest price we pay because we are less imaginative .
How to build our imagination ?
First, create motives and desires . Convince ourselves that what we enjoy today may not be sufficient anymore in the future it comes Yanga . Therefore, daring to imagine anything much better . Second , there are actually bahawa imagine a better way , a pattern which is more fun , the results are much more spectacular if we want to try and try new ways . Remember , " you 'll keep getting what you get now, if you do not try a new way "

Humble Attitude

Once in the city stood a very beautiful statue , which is of the greatest works of famous artists in the city . The beauty of the statue makes the admiration of the citizens who happen to see where the statue .

Various praise for the beauty of the statue seemed to flow endlessly making the statue was proud of his existence . Becoming more and more praise given to him , making a sense of pride within the sculpture evolved into the pride .

" Look , O foundations , the beauty that radiates from my form has led to the admiration of the people who see it " said the statue to its foundation .

" Do not forget yourself , the statue . All the beauty that comes from you it is the result of hard work and the artists who memahatmu builder who built this solid foundation , " said foundation .

Hearing foundation , the statue was said curtly , " Your opinion is just emerging from the absence of envy people who praise dirim form . Yourself without the presence of any , I'm still a beautiful statue , " continued the statue .

The longer , the attitude of the statue was even more arrogant . Until one day , the statue of the foundation said defiantly, " Hai foundation ! Can you prove me think that the beauty of form is powered by your presence ? "

Initially the foundation did not respond to these challenges . But because of pride statue rampant , the foundation intends to teach the statue . The foundation also broke away from the statue . Without the foundation that supports it , the statue was toppled and destroyed . Now , the statue has become scattered chunks and no one is admiring looks .

Netter dear ,

The success we have achieved today is a synergy of efforts that we do , and the support of the people who are around us . Do not be overly relied on " me " and "mine " . We are an integral part of a much larger reality in this universe . Keep your success with humility and a willingness to keep learning .

On Education : Keeping Love Prescription

Once, reunion a large family on a regular family meetings held . Looks pair of grandparents who are always in harmony with each other . Then came a few grandchildren to the grandparents couples .
" Grandpa .. grandma .. let us know how to keep dong grandparents still look harmonious after all this time together , so we are still young can learn " , said a grandson .
Hearing that , shortly grandparents eye contact while smiling at each other so apparent love enveloped in between them . " Grandma will tell you and answer your questions , " said the grandfather .

Gazing into the past , fathers were started. " This experience of grandparents who can not be forgotten and it needs to hear the good guys " .

" One day , we were both engaging chat about an article in a magazine called ' How to Strengthen Marriage Tali ' . , Where written , each one of us should record things that are less favored than our spouse . Then discussed how to modify it to ties knot could be stronger and happier . Nah , that night , we agreed to separate rooms and noting what is not liked .

The next day , over breakfast , Grandma first start reading the list of ' sins ' grandfather along approximately three pages . Think about it , there are many well yes and surprisingly again , many do not like that much but still you become husband 's grandfather 's beloved grandmother , " Grandma said with a laugh at the same time his eyes seemed to glaze back on that time .

Then further grandmother , " Grandma read it to finish and exhaustion ! And Now turn up your grandfather told me " .

In a low voice , the old man continued, " That morning , grandfather brought the paper too , remained empty . Grandfather did not record anything in the paper . Grandfather felt she was the woman whose grandfather loved for what it is , grandpa did not want to change it one bit. Grandmother is beautiful , good-natured , and willing to marry your grandfather 's , it was more than enough for the grandparents . "

Grandma immediately adds, " Grandma really very touched by your grandfather 's statement that since then , no problems or anything large enough to cause a quarrel and reduce feelings of love the two of us " .

Dear Readers ,

Often in life, we spend more time and energy to think about the bad , disappointing , and painful . On it , at the same time we also have the ability to actually be able to find a lot of beautiful things around us .

I trust and believe , we will be a happy man if we are able to do , see and be thankful for the good things in life . Also , always try to forget the bad that has ever happened . Thus , our lives can be filled with beauty , hope , and peace .