When a person do evil / wrong to us , perhaps thinking that first arises is how we will take revenge . Whether it's our friend is stabbed in the back , the boss of us who make our lives miserable, our spouse is cheating or anything / anyone . We want people who do evil to us gets rewarded even more than what dipertbuat hebiat against us . It was a normal condition .
But it would be better if we reconcile the problem and mengikhlaskannya Dangan , than we spend energy to think of ways and strategies to vent heartache for revenge . It is a better thing .
Because the only way to resist revenge is to receive the event and replace it with positive thinking . Or in other words : sincerity and move on . Because after the act had already happened and will not happen again . As if we take revenge , then what is the difference between us and them . Moreover, lower ourselves to revenge him with more bad deeds . Because revenge it usually will happen is worse than what they did against us . It will also have an impact on us ugly .
Many say " Yes .. is no longer there , but it satisfied ! "
In my opinion , satisfaction will not come with vengeance , even by reason of satisfaction , the revenge will be deeper and adversely affect us . So when we wanted to quit , it will be hard to do .
So what to do ?
According to a famous Chinese philosopher , Confucius , the most effective revenge is happily accept it and continue on with life . So we proved that the effects of their misdeeds against us no negative effect on us . And it will disappear by itself . Because revenge is easy , but if you take the other path will show our maturity , how to control your emotions and addressing the problem .
Moreover , I believe in karma . If we do bad things , surely the universe will reciprocate . And vice-versa . We need not bother to take revenge because surely they will receive the same , and if we're lucky , God will give us a chance to see it happen .
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