How does it feel when we are ridiculed by others ? Maybe we will be angry , the ears became hot . But there is also a response to the cold - cold , but harbored a grudge that will someday explode . It is more dangerous and can mengaggu mentality .
So, how good attitude in the face of ridicule others? Here I will describe the story that might inspire us , how to face the ridicule of others.
Once in the largest oil company in Saudi Arabia which is a collaboration between the Arabs and the United States are very thick with the difference in treatment between the natives with foreign workers .
There once was young Arabs only secondary graduates who work in the company as a low-ranking employees are feeling very thirsty . Then he found a cold water reservoir in a room . When he had taken the water and drink it , instantly came the Americans say " hey , you should not drink this water , which may only engineer , and you are a lowly servant ! "
The teen was not so drink and then go . However , that makes it bad is not really thirsty . But , feeling humiliated : why in his own country , he should not drink the water . Is his status as a lowly clerk must differentiate itself to be able to get a drink , which is actually a free water that anyone can drink .
Luckily, the teen anger disalurkannya on the positive . He was determined to change his fate . The teens also learn very hard and diligently . During the day he used to work , in the evening he took classes at the high school education to achieve .
Under these conditions , it is so rare teenagers hanging out with their peers . Unfortunately , as he told an obsession to improve the lot of the indigenous people in the company , he even laughed at his friends . However , precisely because of that , he was getting his eagerness to prove his words .
Because it works very diligently and quickly learned , finally after graduating high school , teens have the opportunity to obtain a scholarship to study in universities in the USA . He also took a bachelor of engineering degree which would make it engineer . This opportunity is not wasted to " avenge " his past is regarded as a trigger for the spirit . Finally , the young people are not just graduating to become an engineer , but he was even given a scholarship again to continue the Master's degree in geology .
On his return to his country , the youth continue working career sped up so fast . Of a section chief , branch chief , general manager , and finally appointed as vice president in the company . It is the highest position ever obtained by the local people in the company . Funny thing is , teenagers who had become deputy director of the engineers found it down first , to subordinates . One time , the engineer apologize for the events that once took place between them . But he said , "I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart the most because you forbid me to drink at that time . Yeah , first I could hate you . But , if explored further , you are the cause of this my success . "
That is , the teen has managed to turn an insult into a trigger passion for achieving success . Even the last , he is believed to be the Minister of Petroleum and Minerals in Saudi Arabia. He changed the " revenge " became the driving spirit to change the fate .
We ourselves must have also been experienced in various forms of humiliation . Refusal when selling anything , underestimated when the dreams started the struggle , not considered in the work environment , ignored when giving an opinion, to various forms of " harassment " conscious or not . Angry indeed human. Emotions were naturally happened . But our reaction for any taunts that we can actually point to better things . Is not anger and emotions will never solve the problem ? In fact , it often happens multiply the problems that occur .
Let's change all forms of ridicule and humiliation as motivation for his passion for leading change . Do not let emotions momentarily distracting . Do not allow anger bringing wrath . The above story is proof , that ridicule is actually the " energy " that will pull the power within ourselves to transform achieve a dream . Like a failure , in fact it is a vitamin for stepping stones toward success . Keep fighting , keep working , do not back down because of insults
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